Today marks a very special milestone—it's the first anniversary of Rafa Tadielo - Life Coach and Hypnotherapy!
On the 1st of September 2023, I officially opened my business, taking a leap of faith to pursue my passion for changing women's lives through healing and empowerment.
It's been a year filled with growth, challenges, and incredible rewards. I'd love to share with you some of my achievements, lessons, and reflections from this journey so far.
Taking the Leap
When I started this business, I was filled with a mix of excitement and fear. I was thrilled about the opportunity to make a real difference in women's lives, but I was also plagued by self-doubt, inner criticism, and uncertainty.
Like many of us, my limiting beliefs made me feel like maybe this wasn't for me, that perhaps I didn't deserve it, or that it would be "too good to be true." The old voice in my head kept saying I should stick to a stable job, be grateful, and not rock the boat.
But I did it anyway, despite the fear. My dream was bigger than my fear, and I knew I had to take the plunge. Confidence wasn't something I had from the start; it was something that grew as I put myself out there. Even though I didn’t know exactly what I was doing, each step I took made the path ahead clearer. My best strategy was supporting myself wholeheartedly.
Through hypnotherapy, I found the healing I needed to become stronger and more confident. Through coaching, I gained guidance and accountability to keep moving forward.
I used the same tools I teach my clients, and they worked wonders for me. I also maintained a healthy routine for my body, mind, and soul, nourishing myself with the habits and inspiration that kept me going.
Seeing the Results
One of the most rewarding experiences has been seeing my clients achieve the results they want. Watching them transform their lives has been incredibly fulfilling.
As I started getting consistent clients and seeing their progress, it was the confirmation I needed to know I was on the right path.
Helping women overcome their challenges, get to know themselves, and create lives they love has been beyond rewarding.
This past year, I've had some very exciting opportunities—things I never thought I would be able to do.
I moved to Auckland to a house by the sea, was invited as a guest on several podcasts, met incredible women in my industry, started co-authoring a book, made a living from my business, and even became a guest speaker (overcoming my fear of public speaking) in a networking group.
But the biggest win of all has been empowering my clients to create lives they truly love by discovering their strengths and pursuing their dreams.
Lessons Learned Along the Way
Despite still being a baby business, it has profoundly impacted my life and the lives of those I’ve worked with. Here are some key lessons I've learned over the past year:
If you have a dream, it's up to you to live it. It takes a lot of accountability, tough love, and straightforward self-talk to get there. Take yourself seriously and don't give up.
Healing is non-negotiable. To become the most authentic version of yourself, you need to leave some things behind. Ignoring the parts of you that need to heal will block you from being truly happy, free, and true to yourself.
Choose wisely who you spend your time with. The energy of the people around you will determine if you achieve your dreams or not. Some people will nourish and empower you, while others can drain and discourage you just by being who they are.
This journey is yours and yours alone. While you may meet great people along the way, your purpose and path are only yours to follow. Don't expect others to fully understand, join, or walk this path with you. When the road gets bumpy, you'll find the courage and drive within yourself, not in anyone else.
There are as many highs as there are lows. There will be plenty of "Yay! Wow! Woohoo!" moments and just as many "Ouch! F***! Oh no!" moments. Don’t expect a smooth ride, but know that it is 100% worth it.
Getting support is a game changer. I'm not just saying this because I'm a coach. Having a higher perspective and professional help can make all the difference between achieving consistent results and feeling defeated by lack of clarity and inner criticism.
Looking Forward
I am now living the life I intended to live when I started this journey—my dream life.
Is it easy and perfect? Of course not! But it is absolutely worth it. I am fulfilled, excited for what’s coming next, and committed to my mission of empowering women to create a life they love, including myself. There's so much more to learn and grow, and I'm ready for it with all my heart and energy.
As I look ahead, I'm filled with gratitude for this past year and the many adventures that lie ahead. To anyone out there who's dreaming of something big: take the leap. It won't be easy, but it will be the most rewarding journey you'll ever embark on.
Keep an eye out for some exciting things I’m planning to celebrate this month! I can't wait to share them with you.
Thank you for being a part of this journey with me!
Closing Thoughts:
This year has been a wild ride, filled with growth, learning, and countless moments of joy and challenge. As I celebrate this milestone, I'm reminded that this journey is just beginning.
I can't wait to see where it takes me next. Here’s to another year of growth, healing, and empowerment—for myself, my clients, and everyone who dares to dream big!
With love and gratitude,
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