How Do I Stop Playing Small and Start Sharing My Gifts?
- Rafaele Tadielo
- Jul 25
- 2 min read

Let me say this loud and clear: No one else has your unique blend of talents, life experiences, quirks, and wisdom. And whether you realise it or not, that’s your superpower.
But here’s the kicker… if you’re not sharing that magic with the world—if you’re holding yourself back because of fear, self-doubt, or the sneaky belief that you’re “not ready yet”—you’re not just playing small.
You’re withholding the very thing someone else is out there desperately needing.And yes, I’m going to say it: That’s stealing.
The Real Reason You’re Stuck (It’s Not Laziness)
If you’ve ever said:
“I know what to do, but I just can’t seem to do it…” or “I’ve got big dreams, but I keep second-guessing everything…”
It’s not because you’re lazy.
It’s not because you’re unmotivated. And it’s definitely not because you’re not capable.
It’s because your subconscious mind is running the show, and it’s wired for safety—not success.
That part of your brain is deeply loyal to your comfort zone, even if it’s uncomfortable. So when you try to step out, do something bold, or finally put yourself out there… bam, resistance kicks in.
Self-doubt. Perfectionism. Procrastination. All of it.
Your Mindset Isn’t Broken—It’s Just Miswired
What if I told you that willpower and motivation aren’t the problem?
The truth is, most of the decisions you make are automatic—fired off by deep subconscious beliefs formed years ago. Beliefs about who you are, what you deserve, and what’s “safe.”
So if you keep finding yourself repeating old habits, or shrinking back just when things start to move forward—it’s not a character flaw.
It’s just a well-worn programme running behind the scenes.
And here’s the good news: you can rewrite it.
Rewiring Starts with Awareness
The first step to change isn’t pushing harder—it’s noticing the patterns.
Where do you tend to hesitate?What do you believe about yourself when things don’t go perfectly?Which version of “I’m not good enough” keeps showing up in disguise?
Once you spot the loop, you can interrupt it. But here’s the key: you have to replace it.That means introducing a new belief, a new identity, a new way of responding—and repeating it enough times that it becomes the new default.
Hypnosis Isn’t Magic—But It Feels Like It
If you’ve ever wished you could just reset your brain, this is the closest thing.
Hypnosis allows you to quiet the noise and go straight to the part of your mind that’s been running the show all along. From there, you can plant new thoughts that actually support the life you want to live.
Think of it as upgrading your internal software—less effort, more alignment.
Because it’s not about becoming someone else. It’s about becoming who you were meant to be, before all the noise, fear, and conditioning crept in.
You’re Not Meant to Stay Stuck
You’re not here to dim your light. You’re here to make bold moves, own your voice, and create a life that lights you up.
You’ve already got everything you need—you just need to unlock it.
Ready to stop holding yourself back and finally create the mindset that matches the life you want? Click here to sign up for my free masterclass.
Let’s get bold.
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